April 9, 2013 3:55 pm

I’m A Machine

Last month, inspired by Melissa’s success, Daniel and I adopted a quasi-paleo diet. I say “quasi-paleo” because Daniel is a vegetarian and it’s very difficult to be fully Paleo while veg unless you want to eat eggs for every meal (no), and because I am a wuss and I don’t want to spend every waking moment counting carbs.

Food

I went from eating a big bowl of cereal with 1% milk every morning to eating two eggs with a bit of olive oil.

I went from eating a dry english muffin as the main part of my lunch to eating chicken cooked in olive oil and balsamic vinegar with a giant kale / sweet potato / roasted mini pumpkin seed salad on the side. Sometimes the salad is my main lunch item. Sometimes I bring spaghetti squash topped with spaghetti sauce instead.

I eliminated my morning snack of (sugary and/or fake-sugary) yogurt.

I went from eating crackers and cheese (or a Snack-Pak chocolate pudding, or a string cheese, or two mini Fruit Roll-Ups, or all of the above) as an afternoon snack to eating beef jerky or blueberries or some pistachios.

Daniel and I also made modifications to dinner, like having food-processor-shredded cauliflower as a base for yellow curry instead of white rice, and I like it better than the rice! I also tried making “pizzas” with mushrooms as the base instead of dough. (Just for me though, because Daniel hates mushrooms.)

I cut down on my evening chocolate fix, and did not go obscenely overboard in buying Cadbury Mini-Eggs this year. I think I only bought four bags, total? And I still have a half of one left in the cupboard.

I’m finding I have a tendency to be “afraid” of being hungry; small meals make me worried that I am going to be starving later and not have anything to eat. I am slowly training my body to understand that it’s okay to have a small meal because I can always eat more later if I need to.

C25K

In addition, I took up Couch to 5K. I run three times a week now, and I find myself looking forward to my runs. Me! The person who only runs if A) I am being chased by a bear, or B) I need to catch a bus.

I took a week off for a wibbly-feeling knees and only ran twice last week (repeating the last day of C25K Week 2) because of said knees. If my health insurance didn’t suck so terribly (catastrophic-only, super-high deductible, etc.) I might have thought about visiting a doctor for it, but both my knees feel great this week so – fingers crossed – no doctor for me.

I’ve also been going to free yoga at our public library 2x/month for the last few months, which has been fun. Then, I’m also looking into a weight loss clinic to see their available weight management plans that I can incorporate into my lifestyle. After that, I may also try out treatments like CoolScuplting like this CoolSculpting in Tempe, CA through experts like NAWI Wellness Center – bodysculpting in Naples, FL or Luxe Medical Spa in Elko, NV.

Changes

None! I haven’t seen any positive changes (weight loss, inches lost, mood, etc.) but I am hoping they will happen eventually. In the meantime, I just get to feel really virtuous about my kale salads.

5 Comments >

March 25, 2013 1:00 am

Wesley Turns Three

For Wesley’s third birthday, I got really excited about doing a lumberjack-themed party. It’s not a super common theme so it doesn’t feel overdone, but it was easy to find decorations and I thought it’d be fun to have everybody dress like lumberjacks. We held the party at my parents’ house.

I found some plastic axes online that I used for decoration outside and attached balloons to the mailbox:

Plastic Axe Balloons

My brother made fun of my pathetic attempt to build a log cabin centerpiece with Lincoln Logs and took over:

Lincoln Log houses

A table was set up with cups, plates, napkins, and some of the dirt cup desserts. I found the tablecloth as well as the buffalo-plaid napkins at some birthday party website for cheap and they did a LOT for the theme:

Cups and plates

Black party cups from the dollar store with birch-bark print paper straws:

Birch Straws

I made “dirt cups” out of chocolate pudding, Oreos, and gummy worms. These were a big hit!

Dirt Cups

I made chocolate cupcakes (Wacky cake recipe) with cream cheese frosting and got the deer and evergreen tree toppers and red gingham cupcake wrappers from Bake It Pretty:

Cupcakes

My mom found suspenders (that used to be shared by my brothers!) that say “Grandpa’s Helper” so Wesley wore those all evening:

Whooooo!

His party was around dinnertime, so for actual food we had mini-smokies with BBQ sauce, coleslaw, dinner rolls, and veggies. All the partygoers dressed as lumberjacks and that was honestly one of the best parts of the party. I’m already thinking about what theme to do next year, haha!

Comments Off on Wesley Turns Three

February 13, 2013 2:31 pm

The Feminist Developer

Because I’ve evidently become the feminist developer on Twitter recently, I decided to turn my thoughts into a full-fledged post.

“…a bunch of hot chicks…”

I was spurred to start discssing this when, while at work, I heard the organization Women In Technology described as “a bunch of hot chicks working for agencies.”

Truly. “A bunch of hot chicks working for agencies.”

You’ll recall that I’m the only female developer in my workplace, and I don’t consider myself easily offended. This is not the first time something ridiculously sexist has been said at work (and, sadly, I’m sure it won’t be the last) but this particular instance made me really angry. There is a time and place for describing women as “hot chicks” – if you must – but that was emphatically not it, most especially because it was Women In Technology that was being described, an organization that works with women to help combat this kind of thing in the workplace.

[Our mission is to] advance women in technology from the classroom to the boardroom by providing advocacy, leadership development, networking, mentoring and technology education.

I tweeted this incident and mentioned @everydaysexism, a Twitter account that welcomes any and all reports of this nature to help everyone get a better picture for what it’s like living in a very sexist world. They’re an extremely high-volume account, but I’d recommend giving them a look – they’re doing important work. Sexism is so rampant that we often overlook it, and @everydaysexism tries to highlight the everyday instances in which sexism affects our lives. As for my tweet, @everydaysexism ended up retweeting me and I got several more retweets over the next few days – it made me feel less alone.

Spot the Woman

I’ve also been looking at a lot of websites for apps and startups and other companies, and I started noticing a disturbing trend. If the company even had any ladies on their team at all, they were often listed last, even if their qualifications superceded some of the men’s qualifications!

  • The Outbox team employs a woman as their Director of Sales, and she is dead last on the page. Their lead designer, who is also a woman, is second-to-last. The list seems to be in order of “importance” with the C-levels at the top, but I don’t see why their Director of Sales couldn’t be after the SVP of Operations and above Lead Developer.
  • At 37 Signals, they list fourteen men before they list a woman on their team. Additionally, only seven of their thirty-six listed employees are women.
  • Seesaw is passable; women working there don’t seem to be listed last, but only two out of eight employees are women. Their “posse” leans male too – only three out of twelve investors and advisors are women.
  • Envy Labs does not appear to organize their employees by gender, so well-done there. However, out of 29 employees, only four are women.
  • Other companies like Rdio, Iceber.gs, Userfox, and Plain do not list a woman amongst their team.

Are these stats meaningless? Well, yes and no. I picked these websites more or less at random based on links to various apps and development companies I’ve viewed recently – so there’s some amount of bias there. Plus, some of those companies are made up of only a few people! However, I think it’s telling that it wasn’t very hard at all to find websites with poor representation of women on their team pages.

Maybe it’s just because I last worked at a company with a really great gender ratio and as such, the gender disparity at my current job is extremely obvious to me, but I don’t think I’m seeing things where they aren’t, either.

Future Woman in Tech

Today I stumbled across the website Future Woman in Tech, which is a letter from an aunt to her eight-year-old neice who wants to be a game developer. It says so many things I think developers (male or female) need to hear.

I hope that you never have to hear a co-worker disservice a colleague by describing their physicality before their competence.

…and that’s exactly what happened in the workplace incident I outlined above.

Takeaways

I didn’t set out to write this post. It sort of wrote itself, out of irritation and outrage on behalf of what women working in male-dominated fields like technology put up with every day. I don’t need to hear that website feature described as “TOTALLY TITS!” even if my bowling name is often Tits McGee. Neither do you.

If you hear sexist remarks made in your presence, tweet them to @everydaysexism. You’ll find support there, and even if that’s not what you’re after, you’re helping highlight the obnoxious things that happen every day to women around the world.

And please, show the Future Woman in Tech website to everybody you know. I want it to come true.

3 Comments >